Sigh.
Another crying girl.
Sobbing story of a two-timing man who appears to have another woman that he's hiding from her as well of him not wanting to let her know his number, address etc.
Girl loves boy. Girl is faithful and devoted to boy.
Why are we so dumb as women?
Why do we like to build our love and world around a man?
We build our world around a man, think the world of him, stay devoted and not speak to other guys. This is the thing young girls do. Oh yes I am sure every women has been through that stage and may I dare say, MANY of such stages.
I know, because I have been there.
Passé ladies, passé!
The saddest thing is, many of these women are beautiful, have great personality and are popular. Why? One may ask.
Because we don't love ourselves enough.
Because we don't love ourselves enough to respect ourselves as individuals who are capable of being a complete being by ourselves. Because we don't love ourselves to keep enough of us for us. I think when we do, the guys respect us for respecting ourselves.
We see it clearly when it's not our situation and yet when we are there, we will make the same mistake again. When will we ever learn? Are we not deserving of love?
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Of cos we are deserving of love. Maybe its those guys who dun deserve ours. :)
Do you really feel complete by yourself?
I'm not tremendously happy abt being single, but I'm okay with it and I get by, simply cos there's no other option.
But I sure dun feel complete. Sad to say. :)
I think it's a if it comes its great, but I won't die without kinda situation...Yes it brings joy and pleasure..but I know gals who feel like they cannot live without a man...not my kinda situation :)
don't you just hate these rites of passage? growing up does suck.. and as a woman, it's that multiplied by 10 thousand with all of our sensitive fragile nerves all intricately joined to form one brain center..
don't apologize or feel sorry just because we were MADE to be nurturing, caring, sensitive, accomodating and blah blah blah. yes we love men and men love us, but what rules above all the men and everyone else in this poor planet is still knowing who the heck you are inside and who you really represent and your beliefs and values. if they stand you in good stead, use them as your pillar of strength and no amount of cheating men will ever dare trespass that. start showing that and ppl will soon see that it is not just about being single, we all do not need another person to validate our existence. to SHARE our lives, our happy and saddest moments, yes of course, but we certainly do not choose to live our life just because of one person.
we as women need to wake up to the idea of liberation in its most basic but yet highest form.. gettin in deep within yourself and feeling the very essence of your being and what you really believe in. whether you're single or not doesn't matter as long as you keep that very special place in you for you intact and glowingly radiant. once you get there, spread the word and joy to our contemporaries for it is the freedom that we all seek for in this male dominated world :)
cheerios babe !
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